Tied up with chores just now, can’t run a long post, saw this at the Wail:
What do men REALLY want? Males reveal the personality traits they find most attractive in a woman.
Methinks it’s dead easy both ways:
1. Being a nice person, neither a bstd nor loony but eccentric’s fine. Having reasonable looks, no more, and no really nasty habits.
2. Enjoy doing different things together.
3. Fidelity. Being the centre of her world and vice-versa, not being an appendage, a satellite, not being there to keep her just to support her lifestyle.
Methinks reasonable males and reasonable females want roughly the same thing from the other.
4. This would be money up to a minimum level of comfort, not in a bad area, reasonable security, nice meals, occasional trips.
To me, anything else is just an extra. I don’t believe in ‘love in a cottage’ as it’s unrealistic, nor do I believe in an acquisitive nature – had enough of that in the past.
Though they seem reasonable tickboxes in my mind, I would not be surprised if they were insurmountable in this day and age.